Sunday, February 17, 2008

Seeking the swingers


After you spend nearly a years in the world of massage parlors, Becoming intimate with the people there, getting into their heads, Their sex lives, their ups and their downs, it suddenly dawns on you one day that you have become part of something.The idea of leaving its abrupltly is not as easy as it might seem to be on the surface.



When i was at college i made a thesis about Homosexuality, i even remember my prof told me " This is a hard subject .. masyadong malawak ang pinili mong subject.. Well you are gay baka maging bias ang research mo and makalimutan mo yung mahahalagang angulo ng story" in my mind i said " There's only one logical way to go... and that's to amplify on the bisexual angle". In that way i captured both male and female angle.


The story began when i started asking casual question of other man (gay,"pamintang" buo at durog) whom i came in contact. the more i asked, The more i learned. This leaning towards bisexuality and seemed not only on the upswing, it also appered to have a kind of solidity that is not found in trendy, faddish movements. Now i was convinced that i had stumbled onto the subject.


As it happened, The timing was very right. The moment i would say " I'm doing a research about bisexuality" on more than one occasion someone would pull the rug out from under me. as it were, by taking me aside and saying " Look. I'm bisexual. Would you like to have some pointers ? lets talk" or someone else might say " Listen, i have a bisexual friend maybe we can arrange a date for you". so that in essence, is how it all began.Now for my actual experiences, conversations, and encounters, a number of which were, as they say in the vernacula, "mind-blowers".


Later You will meet the men i have talked and encountered... get to know thier experiences and their minds at the pain, perversity and danger of the man's trip through " the gay life"

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